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Never squirt lubricant directly on a woman's genitals, however; the sensation can be cold and jarring.

The figure-8 tongue technique is one of the most tried and true ways to get things going below the belt with vulva-owners.

You need to be able to RELAX with your partner in first time love making.

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Also, it gives you - and your love partner - time to absorb and really experience what is happening.

Bring a bullet vibrator to bed.

This is something to be passionate about.

Then follow their lead if you're feeling it! You connect deeply and intimately with your husband as you share something unique to your relationship: the sexual joining of your bodies that represents and nurtures your covenant love.

If your partner has a penis and is into rimming , try running your tongue from the top of the perineum just under the balls down around their anus, and back up in a figure-8.