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As we're sure you can attest, that feels entirely unsatisfying.

We spoke to Susan Mayer, Ph.

"Holding against your cheek can do the same thing.

There's nothing wrong with enjoying the dirty bad-girl connotations of a blow job.

I have other female friends who say, "there's less cleanup," "it's not so bad," and "I think he likes it," but as a guy, I'm telling you, it's not important.

If you want him in a certain position, let him know.

But to save you the neck cramps, we recommend these oral-friendly positions:• Lay your flat, relaxed tongue just below the hole and slowly lap up and down.

And by the way, when you're figuring out how to make oral sex awesome, be sure to take into account the desires not only of the receiver, but of the giver.

"Are they pushing your head away? Oral sex is often lauded as the cherry on top of the orgasmic cake for both parties involved: an act of vulnerability and utter release, "I'll have what she's having! It basically does what it says on the tin.

Take it to the edge Edging, also called , is the ultimate tease and the way to toe-curling orgasms.